Inbal Eisner Tamir, 42, a tantra therapy instructor, lives in Pardes Hana, where she also teaches men and women to experience non-touch orgasms.
What does experiencing an orgasm without touch mean?
"Our bodies consist of three layers—the physical, emotional and energetic—each affecting the other. The type of orgasm we're discussing is energetic but influences the physical body, creating sensations similar to actual touch," explains Eisner Tamir.
So, it’s experienced without any physical contact?
"Yes. An energetic orgasm doesn’t require genital contact, nudity, penetration or any physical touch at all. Even a partner’s gaze alone can trigger this experience. Women can also reach climax independently, without a partner or any touch. This type of orgasm allows control over when and with whom to experience it."
How does this energetic orgasm differ from a physical orgasm?
“A physical orgasm is a localized energy surge in the pelvic or genital area that lasts only seconds before it releases. By contrast, an energetic orgasm triggers a full-body, multi-orgasmic experience. It’s not restricted to one area; it spreads as tingling, shivers or waves of warmth or coolness throughout the body. It’s stronger, can last up to 3-4 hours, and is more frequent in a single session. Once the body learns this multi-orgasmic movement, it can experience greater pleasure."
How can one achieve this?
"Our bodies are naturally multi-orgasmic, but life experiences often lead us to shut down emotionally, blocking this possibility. Tantra therapy can help reawaken that energetic capacity and allow us to access this level of sensation.”
What types of experiences?
"Emotional traumas, for instance, not necessarily sexual. Any emotional or physical hurt we’ve experienced is recorded in our consciousness as a danger. The more trauma we've experienced, the less likely our minds are to relinquish control to the body, which is essential for experiencing an orgasm. However, with emotional work and proper practice, this orgasm is attainable. The process involves breathing, meditation, conversation, journaling, introspection, dance and more."
"When a man sees a woman connected to herself and her feminine power, he experiences great joy watching her and being part of her orgasm"
Can both men and women experience this type of orgasm?
"Yes. Each of us has both masculine and feminine energy. A man with more dominant feminine energy will find it easier to reach an energetic orgasm compared to one with dominant masculine energy. Either way, a man and woman can fully enjoy intimacy through their energetic bodies."
Could this non-physical connection lead to emotional distance between partners?
"On the contrary, it can bring them closer. When a woman knows her body and is fully in tune with her pleasure, every part of her becomes sensual. When a man sees a woman connected to herself and her feminine power, he experiences great joy watching her and being part of her orgasm. Even without physical contact, he can be an integral partner in the experience, guiding her body to ultimate pleasure."
What advice would you give to women who want to experience an orgasm without touch?
"Be open to emotional work that may touch on pain. Remember that what lives inside us is not the hurt itself but the memory of it. We need to claim personal sovereignty, let go of blame, embrace our inner strength, and believe we deserve more.
"An energetic orgasm comes when a woman no longer fears herself, hides her past, or feels ashamed of her body or any part of herself. Every layer of concealment, shame, or guilt only distances her from her true self and her inner radiance."
Sex tip: "To experience an energetic orgasm, try relaxing the pelvis rather than tensing it."
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